I gave Gria Charnel and I love it for a cozy, sophisticated scent. I like the regular better than extract. Also Serge luten 5’o clock gingerbre has a similar vibe with less strong of a tea note to my nose.
I think you can’t really go wrong with either of them. But i find them a bit “simple” for lack of a better word. Yes, they are good, but in my opinion don’t really stand out. (But that doesn’t matter if that’s not what you’re going for.)
If you want something that really stands out a bit (maybe something that is fantastiscly overlooked?) I can make some suggestions:
Hands down at of those three options, I would go with byredo bal dafrique absolu because you can wear that year around and it smells AMAZING. I also have grand soir and love it, but I think you can only really wear it in the winter. And if you’re picking between the 2 Gris charnel’s, I would go with the extrait.