a great warm spicy, greeny, smokey (but not tobacco) one is: Black Afgano by Nasomatto
A more Rose, leathery one: Deified Tony Iommi Parfum by Xerjoff
A spicy Rose with some florals: Spice Must Flow by Etat Libre d'Orange
Or a very modern take on Oud/Rose: Nostos by Etat Libre d'Orange
if you want some clean/modernist take on spice and safron: Safran Secret by Maison Crivelli
And you want to go more freshy/gentlemany: Encelade by Marc-Antoine Barrois
all you can wear at night/going out/want to make a lasting impression and do not have any boozy/tobacco notes.
I wear Phronema - Monoliths and Dimensions every night I sit on the porch with my wife. It is very meditative. It's like a calm sea of smooth, warm, woody oud that the nicest Sandalwood pops out of every so often.
Try All Night Until First Light or Eye Contact from Discothéque. Both ambroxan bombs, ANUFL is super peppery and grapefruity, whereas EC is like BR540 but with tonnes of black pepper. Might be love or hate but I love them !