I wear Phronema - Monoliths and Dimensions every night I sit on the porch with my wife. It is very meditative. It's like a calm sea of smooth, warm, woody oud that the nicest Sandalwood pops out of every so often.
Try All Night Until First Light or Eye Contact from Discothéque. Both ambroxan bombs, ANUFL is super peppery and grapefruity, whereas EC is like BR540 but with tonnes of black pepper. Might be love or hate but I love them !